Hi, I’m dizzy, owner of the sex toy review blog, Toy Meets Girl. Welcome to, That’s Not a Vagina. So, what’s the purpose of this blog, you may ask? Well, I saw a need – a need for a resource meant to educate people on the proper terminology for the genitals of those who have …Read More
With this blog, I tried to do a thing. Yes, it started out as kind of a joke between sex bloggers but I hoped it would turn into something educational, where others might contribute and where I would not profit from the affiliate links. I didn’t think it was right for me to keep the …Read More
It was a complete surprise when one day, the Fun Factory Fun Cup Explore Kit showed up in my mailbox. I’ve been interested in menstrual cups and have heard/read a lot of opinions about them. As luck would have it though, I currently have no need for menstrual products otherwise, I would have kept these …Read More
At 5am, my alarm went off. I was tired and annoyed, but I worked my way down the side of the bed and off the bottom. I did my best not to disturb my boyfriend, but he woke up anyway and kissed me. “Good bye. Stay safe. Have fun.” I was going to the Women’s …Read More
I’ve been asking for submissions to TNaV for awhile now and have gotten some great posts. From the very beginning, I felt bad for not being able to compensate the bloggers as much as I wanted to. Being a blogger myself, I understand that our work has worth. I also decided that all commissions I …Read More
When I was taking my Intro to Psychology class in college, I had this really great professor. She was all about discovery-based interactive learning, doing projects and activities to figure things out instead of listening to someone lecture and taking notes. One day, we did an exercise about slang words. She divided us into small …Read More
Perhaps you’ve seen the notice in my left sidebar or saw me tweeting about it but if not, I’d like to formally announce my plans for this site. This site started out as sort of joke between sex bloggers, while also being educational. A few posts were published and then the site went dead for …Read More
First, let me say this: If this is your first introduction to uterine anatomy, stop and read this before you come back. The women in my family all started their periods at the age of 13. I remember hearing the calls of my sisters from the bathroom. “Mom! It’s started.” I remember hearing about cramps …Read More
OK yeah, that title is a bit melodramatic but not by much. The simple fact is, nothing is going into my vagina without lube – not fingers, not a penis and not a dildo or vibrator. I simply don’t make a lot of natural lubrication. It’s been that way as long as I remember. And …Read More
I’ve been suppressing my period with the birth control pill for so long, I don’t remember when I started doing it. But I haven’t had a full blown period in easily over 5 years. I know some people have opinions on doing this but many medical professionals say that there is no medical reason to …Read More
In 2012, feminist Lindy West wrote on Jezebel, “I will never, EVER stop saying ‘vagina’ when I mean ‘vulva.’ Yes, I know the difference. No, I don’t care how mad you are about it. Yes, I think your outrage is misdirected and humorless and pedantic and boring. No, I’m not sorry.” While she’s certainly free …Read More